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I've never been in an open relationship, and as a jealous Scorpio, I couldn't handle one. That said, I love that people are approaching relationships with open minds, as I find the notion that human beings are meant to be monogamous highly unlikely.

So if you're like me, and your partner wants an open relationship and you don't , what are you to do?

If I were the ideal version of myself — a calm, understanding, regular flosser — I would hope that if my partner brought up an open relationship, I would at least try to understand where they were coming from.

In the same way that I would hope they would understand my anxiety around the notion. However, I have a feeling I would be furious.

Dating coach, Shaina Singh , LCSW, explains that when a partner brings up an open relationship, "one might vacillate between feeling angry, sad, experience a sense of loss, inadequacy, [and a] loss of security in a relationship.

A good place to start with those emotions is to sit with them and really explore where do they come from. Effy Blue , a relationship coach specializing in open relationships, offers additional advice for those wary of a partner suggesting polyamory or an open relationship.

This does not necessarily mean the end of your relationship. However, being openminded does not mean that you need to"'give-in,' or do it because you feel like you have no other option," says Singh.

Additionally, it's good to sort out what your partner means by an open relationship. Blue adds that it's important to decide for yourself if you are actually OK with an open relationship , and that you should only enter one if you can enter it with integrity.

All of this said, it's hard to say goodbye to a person you love, and it can be tempting to give the open relationship a try, even if you don't think it's for you.

To gain some real world perspective, I spoke to Dana Schwartz, author of the forthcoming memoir Choose Your Own Disaster and woman who has been in this exact situation.

What has become of him, I hope his entitled smugness has been superceded by the natural consequences of his assholery.

February 4th I will be 2 years divorced and about 5 years from his melt down. That is completely and utterly vile. These cheating, selfish people have no regard for anyone but themselves.

I am so sorry that happened to you…? Said the right things, never fighting, never put me down or called me names.

Always telling me how beautiful i am and such a good father. Came home after work, went to the gym most days after work.

I thought we were great. Found out several months ago, that for the entirety of our relationship from the beginning he has been cheating online with 4 that i was able to dig up proof for, with 3 more possible girls.

He has a pattern he befriends them and then flirts if they respond he gets more intimate and if they allow him he gets sexual and then starts getting pics from them.

He has 1 pic of himself he said he sent once. I dont believe that i think there are more. Also a woman he got nudes from before we met started going to his gym.

The only truth i have gotten from him is what i found proof of. He tried to lie and cover it all up and delted all the evidence. I had to dig for what i did find.

He swears he never met them physically, but 1 woman he has known for 20 years showed up in our city and texted him her address and that she was drunk.

They both said he never responded. I still think there is more i will never know. I put everything into us. I cannot imagine how you endured 32 months of that.

I would be a basket case after a few weeks. He knew to keep it all secret. Even today six months after ddays and divorce in process I came across more paperwork that he lied about.

About we had a fraud flag on a charge on his credit card for a personals organisation. I told him and he called to say it was fraud. I totally bought it.

Forgot about it. Then the ddays happen and I think, huh, how about those charges? He denies it was anything but fraud. Week or so later going through paperwork in shock and horror on the hunt for evidence I find letters from the fraud department still not filled in.

I ask again. Oh, I called and did it by phone they sent a new card! Monday this week he asked if I had shredded his paperwork he had sorted through.

So I go through the bag last night. Found all three letters from the fraud department un filled and their letter saying they had to assume it was correctly charged and they dropped it.

Charge was reinstated on new card the next month and he paid it. I would have believed him if he said he forgot and probably paid it anyway. But he is trying to hide it still.

We are divorcing. Nothing to gain by lying except sinking even lower in my estimation. But he still lies. Just because.

Two years before my multiple ddays. They truly suck. Lying becomes part of their nature. As my therapist said, instrumental liars lie to get out of consequences; pathological liars lie for control and power over other people.

My ex used to lie about stupid stuff. Stuff that telling the truth would have been so much easier. And then it would make me question my memory.

I have an excellent memory when it comes to events that happened, things that were said or where everything is in the home. And it was only him that I felt this way with.

Now I realize it was him. And my pastor did the same thing. He did say what I heard him say as my sister was there when he said it. I always thought that cheater just had a really bad memory.

No he was just so use to lying he could not keep the truth straight. When I challenged him on what he had said when I got some of my strength back he flat out denied it and his wife supported his lies as she was the only witness to the exchange.

This hurt because I once considered her my friend. I learned that my best option was to get far away. Lies are always about a lack of character.

Another way to gain power was to agree with whatever I said. And I always had a sinking feeling inside that his agreeing was to make me believe I had the power in the relationship.

They were numerous. In fact his happiness was dependent on some super power I should have had to read his mind.

What I know now is that he DID listen and attend to my words. He used them against me twisting and putting a spin on them sadistically on DDay.

Discard happens long before Ddays. Cheating requires manipulation and lies. There is much more that comes into play with the disordered.

The abuse however small that it may appear initially, was ever present. Dude, that bitch sucks. Was a similar situation for me. After I kicked her out, I remember running into her at the local supermarket.

She had a tank top type of shirt on and I could see the bite marks all over her chest. Those were the days! Bite marks on her chest.

That reminds me of the bruises Match Girl came home from her conference with. They so get off on the power of deception. Mad respect, bro.

But what I do get is how hard it is to extract ourselves from these abusive situations. Sure, it would have been great to have kicked her ass to the curb.

Insist that you two cannot continue to live in the same house. But sometimes all we can do is stumble around in the fog of abuse as we sink lower and lower as our self-worth goes into the crapper.

The pain we continue to endure is tantamount to being strapped to a merry-go-round of emotional torture minus the merry part. You did the best you could, and you were fighting against your brain changing due to the abuse.

PTSD is real and something that a lot of us cheater survivors suffer from, and it coupled with gaslighting, grief and rage makes for a potent cocktail of mind mush that is extremely difficult to push through.

He freaked out and started yelling and screaming and to this day claims I ended the relationship in the cruelest of ways by kicking him out.

He was homeless!! Oh no!! If not for the kindess of a few friends, what would he have done!?! Well, he would have lived out of a hotel for a while until he could rent an appt.

He had the money to do so. I still wonder if I should have let him stay in the house. We spent 20 years building a life together.

There were a lot of golden moments. But I see now how that would have nearly killed me. And I thank you for sharing some of your story to help remind me of that.

As another person who lived with ex for 2. Your own pain seems less important than having the family ripped apart. Looking back, I did my child few favors but at the time it seemed valid.

That was exactly in my case also Dixie. And she knew it. She loved that power over me. Of course I could of moved out but moving out of my home and away from my 3 kids?

Because she was a whore. Leave a cheater, get a life for sure, but decide when and how very carefully. That was also part of the equation.

Perhaps the people who are playing back the CD-kicked-him-out narrative are Switzerland friends in the making. He had the money and he was able to find shelter.

He is miles beyond what a lot of the cheaters and especially chumps have available to us in resources. All of it got under my skin. Absolutely all of it.

Kicking out someone I loved from our home of 20 years…how did I manage to do that? I loved him. And I kicked him out.

And my dad had just died. I needed him to be there for me and to take the reigns while I fell apart for a while. Instead while I was already in the gutter, he ran over me with a truck.

ChumpDude this was an amazing post. Early on a therapist asked me why I tortured myself. Those words. It took six years and an amazing therapist to find that answer in The Awakening came that day when I knew the truth.

Recovery is a long process. I am no longer that person. Your description was powerful and validating.

We are indeed survivors. We are survivors. And sometimes recovery seems like it will never end. And I guess it never will as we are forever changed.

But our bumps and bruises bring a lot of character and beauty. And it was a threat, it came with accusing me of being asexual bullshit, and we were having sex times a week.

So my place in that little plan? I call it scullery maid. I refused and was called a bitch and not a team player… He did it anyway, I found out while I was stuck on the farm with their son, and I suspect it had been going on all along.

I am the baddie and he has been terribly treated… I emasculated him and made him live like a pig, he was afraid of me, I would harm him, I was trying to poison him.

Never at any point did he ever offer even an open relationship where I also would have some fun, or at least some recognition as a sexually active woman!

Did we have the same wife? Seriously, almost word for word, except she was also draining our joint account every week, and withholding her own pay.

The next day I told her we were done, I wanted a divorce. After multiple consequtive DDays and failed wreckonciliation and after he felt my resolve to leave the marriage, he asked if we could continue in an open marriage.

He said he did not have a problem with it if I did it discreetly. The more you look the worse it gets.

Capricorn, You are so right about what they say and do once the mask falls completely off. Some of the things he said to me made my brain hurt — just crazy talk mixed with lies.

I thought I was the one with the problem. On quite a few occasions I asked my husband this question. I honestly really wanted to improve myself, be a better wife, mother and friend.

Good friends sharpen each other. Good friends help you be a better person. Word Salad. Never heard that term until I came to CL.

But now it all makes sense. Lots of words. Lots of truth. Lots of lies. Cheating Ex and his AP blew up my marriage. Looking back, lots and lots of red flags.

I was never that spouse, and who the fuck does that in a healthy relationship? The disordered are bothered by ties that bind though spouses, children, a mortgage, time spent together because they are always looking to escape reality.

At the gym for eight hours? Hey, do what you want! Trusting him to be normal, to recognize that he had it all.

I thought I had married a grown up with morals…. Marriage was doomed from the start with Peter Pan. Go the fuck ahead and DO what YOU want, just recognize that consequences are the direct result of crap choices.

Nothing is equal in a marriage there. And hey, new pussy. Pay attention to actions, cause if I had, I never would have married shit for brains.

Her needs her wants her life her drama her blah blah blah ,,,,,,,,,,,,fucking frustrating. My therapist keeps telling me DO not let the anger rule you.

Pretty fucking hard some days when I just want to dump her shit on the front lawn and burn it. My kids are my cause……….. Yeah that rage thing is what kept me from filing first.

For somebody happy with his new love that just about said it all. Datdamwuf, Sounds sadly familiar. My adulterous STBX asked me to choose a dating site membership for him only while we were married but not separated.

My STBX, even years after officially leaving me, still says disgusting, obscene things about me to the public and in front of kids as if had been the one who was unfaithful during our relationship although he, not I, cheated on partner during engagement and marriage.

It astounds me that Newt Gingrich has found three women in this world to fuck him, let alone marry him. Three women to fuck him? However low my standards may have been, he would have always been beneath them.

That did not go over well. Bye Felicia. I tried this. He knew who I was going to be with, that he was some random guy from out-of-town, that I would never see him again, that we would be safe, etc.

After it was over, I ended up feeling like shit. Like I sold off a piece of my soul to try and heal and patch together what was left of my relationship.

When I came home that night after everything, my now-ex had a meltdown, and I cried. A lot. His meltdown was one of the few times I saw his mask slip.

And I felt absolutely terrible. I lost who I was. I only ever wanted monogamy. We fumbled along for several years after that point, but then D-Day 2 hit, and it took the rest of the fight out of me.

Wow, ChumpDude, your experience is a good warning to chumps who are desperately trying wreckonciliation and would consider compromising their principals to keep their cheater.

Be true to yourself. Newday, I admire your quick-witted response!! My ex denied any wrong-doing even though I had proof!!! Gaslight much??? I was like Tempest — absolutely done trying to salvage the sinking ship.

Bye Felipe!!! Hence my moniker…. I was Over and Out! These cheats are eating nutrient poor foods like cake. These cheats probably even get withdrawal symptoms when they try to stop with their toxic cake.

No doubt Drew. Yeah, I may want to be an astronaut when I turn 60, but I hope I will have realized that my opportunity for that profession is long past…and that my poor eyesight and heart murmur disqualified me anyway!!!

She wanted absolution for what she had already done, and continued to do. She wanted me back in my place, agreeing to another one of her requests as I had for years.

After all, to her, the purpose of our marriage was to make her happy, and she was getting upset that lately I had come to expect some of my own needs and goals to be met!

Here, here JC, so so so true. This is the same thing that an anchor does. Mine did the same. Asked for an open marriage even though unbeknownst to me we already had one.

I agreed to try it because I am sooooooooooooooooooooooo chumpy. Manipulative and so fucked up. Divorce became final in June of this year.

And her lawyer reminded him that it is in the best interests of the children that I do this. An enriching trip to Europe would enhance their cultural awareness!

Learning to drive in a hummer would keep them safe! Organic cooking classes for their nutritional excellence! Khris — something tells me the kids could always come a live with you and be properly cared for until your XW finds more suitable and affordable housing?

Got asked this question. Said no. It gave me the impression that her unemployed grandfather of a boyfriend suggested she do.

That honestly is the hardest part. Seriously why is it always just continuous mind numbing, classless, tasteless, intellectually uninspired drivel?

You know the best thing about the marriage at all cost sites? They do teach you to get your head on straight if only for apprearance.

I did that. No drinking even if stressed, therapist, hobbies. Becoming that is invaluable. So to any new people here-do not drown your sorrows. Stay level headed and screw your head back on straight if you do reconciliation.

Even more than ego, selfishness and cake, the universal motivation behind cheating is control of chump.

Holding information from someone is a control issue. Hiding information from someone is control issue too.

Think of it. Cheaters have clandestine control of finances, their schedule, their activities…. Convincing your chump to agree to, or at least go along with, an open marriage contract is the cherry on top of the control sundae!

Cheater does not loose social standing in a divorce, or loose wife appliance, kids, financial and emotional support — nothing!

If they fear that cheater will return to house and home keeps a lot of OW or OM in check. Let the two of them continue to play these games.

The kids and I will live authentic lives without the messed up drama somewhere else. Cheaters have clandestine control of finances, their schedule, their activities.

Once again, thankful for CL and CN. My ex-cheater controlled all of the above. I bought the lie. So I went without.

Colored my hair at home. Haircuts maybe three times a year. Small wardrobe. Made due with what I had. I did all of this for the fake future we talked about a lot.

The only good part is I got half of everything, so I will eventually have a nice retirement, but without a cheater. Yeah, give me a break.

Two times in our marriage, I had a male friend. One was a friend from high school we lived over miles apart that I emailed back and forth to a few times using our families email, so nothing was hidden.

Right before my high school reunion, my male friend asked if we could meet the day after the reunion for a few hours.

And one friend for sure he met out for lunch for their birthdays. The day came and my husband was visibly jealous of my male friend.

He had to work in the same area that I work in for two hours every day. We just talked about politics mostly. Ex was visibly jealous of him too.

I was just talking about my day. I just needed to be the Good Wife. Do my job. Keep my mouth shut. Fuck that shit.

He was the controlling one. And I had every right to judge his behavior. Lying to and cheating on your spouse is wrong.

There was nothing wrong with me pointing out that his character sucks. This sounds awfully familiar to me, Martha.

My ex accused every single male and gay female work friend of wanting to sleep with me. The possibility that you actually like working with someone or that you can be platonic friends with someone seems alien to them.

I completely agree with you that you can have work friends of the opposite sex. My ex works mostly with women too. They work together.

He takes it a step further. He intimately knows about women who work in departments that he has absolutely no reason to visit. He has to have a large supply of female attention and admiration to fill up his dark, empty soul.

I caught him out once on a drinks date with a former ho-worker. He said that was the only time he did something like that. That was the only time he got caught!

And this is why he was jealous of my two male friends. He was projecting onto me his cheating. He was a cheater, so of course since I had two male friends, then I was a cheater like him.

Never again will I be in a relationship like this. He entered our marriage as a liar and cheater. Of course you would, that is SO typical of you.

They all think we just fell off the turnip truck. My ex easily told ten lies the night he went out with a former ho-worker. And then he came home and looked me straight in the eyes and continued to lie.

Cool and all calm-like. Even the last time he kissed me passionately was all a lie. This is what a great liar he is! He could easily pass a polygraph test.

That was just the first time you got caught! Two years later I saw a similar Happy Birthday email to another former ho-worker. So, no.

It was just once. I have no doubt in my mind that he has dozens of women he sends out Happy Birthday email to and tell them how much he misses them, blah, blah, blah.

Found to separate occasions. One under his desk. One in a drawer. First one I let go. Second one I confronted him with the evidence. We moved a lot for his job so I put it down to that.

His work friendships were all women but I trusted him and thought he was just a lovely listener who liked to gossip more than talk shop with the men.

Turns out of course he used his female side to get close emotionally very quickly with women and when the chance arose to take it beyond friendship, he did.

He was always overweight and I was forever worried about his health. Turns out each of his OW were the same. His favourite bought him books to help and took him on healthy walks.

He never suspected me of cheating even though I was mostly alone living back home with the boys. It used to upset me that his family saw me as controlling and the one who wears the trousers as he is quiet and seemed easy going.

They would be quite mean and he would not defend me. I thought it was because he was scared of them in some way or deferential.

Now I think he might have enjoyed seeing me being taken down. He resented me for things I think. Being organised, dealing with everything, having opinions.

He resented me for being organised, dealing with everything on time, having made lots of money by myself before I met him and being in control of my finances, although he and his kids benefited greatly from all this.

I thought he even resented me for coping with all the miscarriages and not falling apart. But when I did fall apart after DDay, no empathy, no compassion, not even a little pity.

I could have written this. I have so far yet to go in this divorce process and I am already weary of it all. My bff went into the woods near her home and threw eggs at the trees.

She found it very satisfying. She also got a kickboxing dummy to hit. I have no problem expressing my anger but I know a lot of chumps do.

Suppressing anger can really mess you up physically and mentally. Now, go punch something. Yeah, Getmefree.

Find a good way to let your anger out. Trust me. I suppressed it and then I exploded. It is scary when you feel out of control.

Like Louisvilleflower suggested — kickboxing dummy would be great! I wish I would have thought of that. I had a friend who used to go in her car and scream.

Or hit a pillow when no one is around. I scream and cry often when I am in the car alone. Unfortunately, I unloaded a bit on my mom today.

She is one of the only people who knows the full extent of what he has done and continues to do. I feel a little unburdened but I hate doing that to her.

This divorce process is soooo frustrating. It takes so long and he just keeps complicating it by the shit he is trying to pull.

That this is who he was underneath all along and the level of deceit he pulled to keep me believing that deep down he was a good person.

People really do want to help! And keep unloading here at CN. I wish I would have found her sooner. She would have saved me from making a lot of mistakes!

My ex tried to pull stuff, too. You keep fighting for yourself. You can do this! If I can, you can. I was super deluxe chump, so it was really hard sticking up and fighting for myself.

Yeah, I totally hear the pain and anger in your last two sentences. I can totally relate. All of us at CN can relate. It takes time for your heart to catch-up with your mind and the facts of who they are.

Unfortunately as the person closest to these cheaters, we see them for who they truly are and not the fake image they present to the world.

It will get better. It really will. Martha, Thank you. So many people think he is an ass but will still hang out with him and give me the subtle impression that I should just get over it and make the best of it for the kids.

This is the only place I can go that truly gets the level of manipulation, gaslighting, deceit, and betrayal we have dealt with. The unknowing how everything will turn out in terms of the divorce and parenting plans is eating away at me.

So much out of my control leaves me feeling frayed. He would agree to stop fucking prostitutes, but I, as his wife, have no right to expect him to give up his healthy friendships, or telling them he loves and misses them.

For those healthy friendships he destroyed our marriage and family and put me through hell. Divorcing him. My wife just went out and had one.

At the end of our marriage, her boyfriend was jealous of her other boyfriends all married guys. So obviously I was in an open marriage for a while — she just forgot to mention that to me.

And I would think the stress would get to even these folks eventually. STBXH had three girlfriends on the go each one from the last country he was working in.

Like a board game I suppose, collect a girl token from each country but you loose if wife token gets to know hey did I just invent a new board game?

Can think of a few designs for the pieces to move around the globe. If they need to up the stakes a bit to keep their adrenaline going. Just having one affair, then another with younger girl, then one with a better class of girl, then hey lets have an open marriage.

Or do they begin to really believe they are all that special and think you might go for it. But it could be as you say.

Just want to make it all easier. This sounds like a fun Friday blog … name the streets for Cheateropoly!! And name the rules! Go straight to STD clinic.

A game with moving pieces around the world? I know it came from O Scumbag. We have to remember that for every lie they tell the spouse, they are telling a different and equal lie to the AP.

The open marriage request is like the hail Mary pass of trying to keep the kibbles flowing. Then if the AP actually drops a dime on the cheater… they will just deny.

Skankboy will never understand that a marriage is between two and not three. Mine claimed while cheating and months after DDay2 that he was meant for serial monogamy.

He has an MSc and is a pompous arse PhD dropout who used to brag to his family that we have 6 degrees between us.

Cattle were held up at the works for 24 hours while I sorted out the paper work. I have long believed there needs to be a special legal status created to take care of any domestic situation that falls out of our accepted norm — especially if there are children involved.

The care for the children should be of paramount importance — far beyond any differences in religion or race or any other differences we might argue over.

It should not matter if we are male or female, what color we are, or where we come from. If two adults consent to do any of these things, there should be laws which govern and protect each of them.

If the property is sold, if the business is dissolved, if the people choose not to live together anymore — the children should still be protected and supported by both.

This could cover any situation — like two sisters or brothers, or aunts or uncles who become the caretakers for children.

It is not a marriage, it is a responsibility agreement. If someone wants to screw around, they are going to do it, whether or not we agree to it.

Indeed, Portia. Two in business to raise a child should get legal protections. But in my country we are so far removed from such a reasonable arrangement.

The manipulation was breathtaking. It was only after I said NO MORE that she started revealing the true depths of her cowardice, entitlement and lack of any sense of integrity or decency.

Right there it is — the small pieces of truth to throw you off and make you feel guilty if you questioned. Not sure which is greater, my embarrassment for falling for it, the anger over him doing it, or the hurt that he had such contempt for me and a lack of true feeling that he was capable of treating me this way.

Sucks…all of them. I always though that because I invested in my marriage — and I bonded with her — and I helped her make and raise three kids — that I deserved a certain level of respect.

Of course instead of getting that respect, I just got my world blown up instead. Whorrie living in her own open marriage — with zero agreement from me — felt as I was living in Chernobyl every.

The toxicity was just compounding every. Interesting though, years and years later — it is she that is living in her own Chernobyl with nobody at her side — not even her kids.

You have described my work friend perfectly UX. Like you, he also tells himself that he is liberal and has open ideas about love and marriage, etc.

In fact, I came to rely a bit on him being a good listener for me and he was always really good about checking in on me to see how I was feeling or doing on any given day.

But I remind myself now and throughout this whole ordeal that at least I know who my true friends are. I take comfort in that knowledge.

I just figure that whatever he does is between him, his wife, her boyfriend and all 3 of their collective shrinks….. How fucked up is that?!

Women who propose the open marriage route know that they have a very large pond to play in — there will always be multitudes of men single, married, involved, any age at all who are willing to engage in no strings attached sex with a woman who puts herself out there as wanting it, regardless of her relationship status.

Men who agree to it before coming to their senses come to understand rather quickly that their pond is far, far smaller. My guess is that your friend is hoping that if he just finds a willing partner to play with, everything will somehow get better.

Ask me how I know. UXworld, I absolutely agree with everything you said. I hope he reaches the point where he values himself more.

I have tried over and over and over to reaffirm that to him. He seems to be sticking with the party line that everything is fine which he has also told me while crying.

I wish there was something I could do for him, something I could say, another therapist to send him to to make him see that he is worth so much more.

Even his kids are getting to the age where they are starting to understand that mommy has a husband and boyfriend. I just can see the physical manifestation of what it is doing to him.

He has also told me that he is not comfortable with anybody else knowing about his lifestyle. Yes, finding out my ex-h was a cheater sucked ass.

Having to be apart from my daughter every other weekend because of cheater sucks. It all sucks. As much as we chumps preach paying attention to our cheaters behavior, not their words, to reveal truth, we must also turn that philosophy on ourselves.

Unfortunately I have nothing to offer you in terms of practical advice beyond what I wrote in our forums exchange. I always valued my older sisters objective views and opinions.

I had to grieve at the beat of my own drum. This was my reasoning not to leave for the first year or so: -I was still in denial. I was hanging on to hope that she would see the light.

Emotionally I was totally moving on.

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I just feel that it would spice things up to make some changes. The two ultimately decided to broaden the scope of what they did sexually as a couple.

Safe sex was non-negotiable. There was a minute time limit on a dalliance. And most importantly, the experiment could not be repeated if both partners did not agree.

Coming home afterward we shared details and did a lot of laughing. While Sam would have preferred to try another swinging party sooner versus later, he valued his marriage too much to disobey the rules they set.

The need for transparency is batted around but rarely adhered to in the political realm. Couples cannot obfuscate with one another about open marriage.

In the five years since, there's been a random guy here and there I met through work situations, but no one as consistent as James. Though our sexual chemistry is fantastic, it's still not a perfect situation.

I told James that I expect to hear from him more often than simply a text or email a couple months before it's time for us to make plans to meet up.

And when that doesn't happen, I've lamented to Nick about how I sometimes feel like more of a hooker than friend or colleague. It may seem weird that Nick and I comfort each other through these mishaps.

But overall, as crazy as it may sound, it makes us stronger together. I never thought I'd be that person in an open marriage, but it's worked for me and Nick, and for me and James, too.

James and I don't talk much about Nick, but I still get butterflies in my stomach in anticipation of being with him.

And Nick says I seem more confident after being with James and he loves that. Though I rarely want to know any details about his escapades, I'm happy Nick is happy.

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